The "5 things meme" and identity

There are some interesting posts arising from the Pulver 5 meme thing.  Pulver is receiving some criticism for self gratification and promotion from the meme. I will stay out of that one and don’t know the participants.

However the matter of identity, and willingness to post “5 things that you didn’t know about me” was raised here by Confused. He stated something that struck me as deep and thoughtful when he pointed out that identity is defined in different ways, depending on your culture.

In many cultures identity is defined by what you stand for, what groups you belong to. Some of these groups may be based on simple things like geography or blood, but most such groupings are complex and form an integral part of identity.

Whereas generally in the West, we have migrated the identity concept to a number. Drivers licence, Social Insurance, Health Card, are all numbers, and identity is driven from those into such things as financial records, and credit bureau reports.

Lost in all that is a persons underlying identity … who am I? Surely more than a few pieces of plastic.

Jordan at Equanimity wrote in reference to the “you” in “5 things that you didn’t know about me” :-

But forgive me for asking: who are you, anyway? who am I to you. That’s the flaw in the premise of the meme that gets me. Can’t say what someone doesn’t know if you don’t know who someone is.

This raises identity to be something that cannot exist in isolation.

You are not just Sam Doe, 38963w6 – you are Sam Doe of the Clova Doe’s, married to Helen of the Prosen Doig’s. Currently working at Bank of America, in the Trade Finance group, and enjoy cycling, and hiking in the Adirondacks. Am a dedicated IBM Thinkpad user, and don’t understand Mac people at all. (pardon the Scottish but fictitious examples – its what I know)

This has interesting implications for Social Networks and Social Finance sites – something I have been calling Open Source Finance. If Social Networks are truly a throwback to natural groupings that occurred in the wild in tribal societies, then some of the attributes that made those work must be brought forward.

We in the West, at least my generation, have been programmed to be private, and confidential, particularly abut financial affairs. Yet in the old days, of Friendly Societies, everyone knew everything about everyone, and the support and assistance that came with that made all very comfortable. Those same attributes can be relayed into Open Source Banking models, through groups, support and assistance between members to generally elevate the quality of the service.

The first examples are generally in the loan space. However the intriguing part of some of those examples is that they are as much about investing (the lenders) as they are about borrowing. Banks are truly cut out of the equation, disintermediated.

Some may call these additional components of identity reputation. But its more than that … these are fundamental non-numbered attributes of a person, and who they are.

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4 thoughts on “The "5 things meme" and identity

  1. There was some noise last week created by a few cluessless people who jumped to conclusions without ever exploring the facts. And in one case, where someone actually make up the story to suit their own needs.

    Anyway, a little link love back to my blog would be appreciated if you are going to reference it.

    Best regards, Jeff (posted at 35,000 ft)

  2. Jeff .. I’ll be glad to provide the link when I get back to my PC later.

    One of the challenges with the meme was that it didn’t consistently mention the source or your blog, so only after some research did I locate it.

    Anyhow, thanks for the comment and good luck.

  3. To Jeff –

    As your associate Mr. Brogan is well aware through his conversations with me, I am open to criticism and dialogue and would have welcomed a corrective conversation with you if anything I posted about the “5 Things” meme and your generation of it were untrue. You’ve had a few weeks to do this, as trivial as it may seem, but seem content to have people left with bad/mistrustful feelings towards you and your ventures. Would these bad feelings be less trivial to you if we had an accountant quantify those bad/mistrustful feelings towards you and your ventures such as Network 3 and Abbey Corps?

    Feel free to mail me and I’ll be happy change the post linked above for verifiable inaccuracies. I’m not an unreasonable, anti-capitalist jerk. I’m just a jerk about ensuring full disclosure and opt-in are hallmarks of web-based marketing activity.

    Best regards and apologies to Colin for taking up his comment space with my comment.

    Best Regards,

    Jeffrey in Paris

    thegayexpat at gmail dot com

  4. No problem ‘Jeffrey in Paris’ – fascinating discussion …. hope you all get it sorted out.
    Colin

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